5. Let’s say you’ve finally met. The first thing you should do is to be polite and ask him how he is doing. Do not waste time, though. Remind him that the night you spent with him ended with a pregnancy. That it was not just your suspicion and that it was confirmed by your doctor. Keep talking instead of waiting on him to answer. He will be too shocked to say clever stuff anyways. Tell him that you know he’s got a right to be informed about it. He should also know what your next step is. Ask him whether he would be willing to participate in the matter.