3. Spoilt Brats: You cannot make a good wife if you have been spoilt all your life. This might have been done by your parents, relatives or your previous boyfriends. However, this is just another bad thing that will never make good for a long-term relationship or marriage. Sometimes spouses have to be ready to scarify themselves in order to make their children or spouse happy. If you expect it from your future partner yet not ready to give that back, you won’t be a good wife.