2. Improve yourself in many different ways. This work is hard since telling others what to do is much easier than changing your true nature. Think about your feelings and emotions. If there is too much negativity, then find out what it is that makes you aggressive towards others. Get rid of the things that cause the stress and tension in your life and you will be more tolerant to others. Your well-being influences the quality of relationships and social interactions. You will then learn to avoid conflicts, too.